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Wednesday, January 20, 2010 1:17 AM
Kudos to CHC humanitarian works branch City Care. the straits times reported that they are the first 8 Singaporeans to fly to Haiti to help the victims in times of tremor, fear and pain. Oh gosh, we need more doctors in this place. Doctors!!! Nurses!! I wished I could play a part in this too but there's just so much I could do..Nonetheless, we could pray for them and the workers who will be going over to Haiti! proud to say that my own ZS is heading team 2 to leave for Haiti tmr.. :)
I am just so proud of all of them! cheers.
anyway i got mixed feelings when i came across razor tv and saw the video on the girl who got molested by 4 guys at Siloso Beach Countdown Party for 2010! sighs, actually i was left dumb-founded, I really dont understand what is the situation there..
firstly, i feel it is not wrong for the lady to dress in bikini as it is a beach party...wearing bikinis to beaches are so common and it seems like a dresscode for ladies..however, when she got surrounded by the 4 indian men, she could already have shouted for help and ran away.. didnt expect her to stay there and allow the guys to do such things..
secondly, are we living in Singapore? Is Singaporeans like this- only videoing and no one went up to help the victim?? I am appalled by this reaction.
sighs, like what the representative from the women's society mentioned, the female ought to protect herself but how can people just be onlookers? Aren't we taught to help our friends or peers or even own countrymen? moreover, I was also shocked to even hear comments like "she deserved it!" just what on the world is this? has the world transformed into a society with cold-blooded human beings and hardened hearts?
I mean, if I was there, I probably would have gotten a gang of guys to help to push those guys away. Even if the girl is tipsy, she also should have limits..no wonder Jesus said," away with this perverse generation.."
it is also interesting to watch videos of typical students too engrossed in the PDA!
it is just plain disgusting! I mean, girls! pls rise up and protect yourself! how could u afford to do this?? schools really got to impose much stricter education on those topics like PDA. to what extent is it acceptable? to what extent is it not? because, it is a public place, non-excludable.. people will pass by definitely and dont you guys feel ashame of yourselves?? Zi Ai pls!
Balance is really the key to life. everything we do, it got to be in moderation.. seriously speaking, i kinda feel embarrassed even just by looking at them..I do not know and do not understand why people are being too open about it.
anyway, these are just my personal comments and I totally am standing on the neutral..not siding with any gender or anything.. just some thoughts..